You Don't Have To Be Irish To Play Irish Music

From what I have noticed, as long as you're playing an instrument suitable to Irish music, and as long as you are playing it with some semblance of understanding, it doesn't matter how flimsy your connection to being Irish might be. 

I have no known history of Irish culture in my family. No relatives claimed Irish roots. We didn't grow up listening to Irish music in the house. I probably didn't even hear Irish trad until I was 30 years old on my first visit to Ireland and saw Yvonne Casey, Eoin O'Neill and Quentin Cooper play in McDermott's Pub Doolin. 

When I finally did start playing a musical instrument a couple years later it wasn't necessarily with the intent of playing Irish music. However, when I discovered that there's this type of music where you get to play all-melody all-the-time I was sold. No chord changes, no singing, no waiting for your turn to solo. Just play the melody 100% of the time in unison with other melody instruments. I thought, "I can do this". I try to keep thoughts of being completely inauthentic to the back of my mind.

To the original point. If you learn the etiquette and are making an effort to learn the tunes and get them up to speed, then you'll be fine. Don't wait around until you are good enough. I didn't. If I was waiting until I was good enough I'd still be waiting.

Welsh singer Tom Jones playing fiddle

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